Wellington · New Zealand

Wellington gals, let's get actually social.

Actually Social Wellington is a real-world social club for women. Long brunch tables, craft and sip nights, walk and talks, trivia and after-work drinks - hosted, curated and easy to show up to solo.

Become a founding member NZ$16 / month · Cancel anytime

Actually Social members together at a club event

Wait, what is this?

A real-world social club for women

Actually Social is built around making connection feel easier, more natural and far less intimidating.

We're the gals who organise your social calendar for you. We're the table you join when you want to check out a new spot. And most importantly, we make meeting new friends feel natural, comfortable and actually fun.

Our members span different ages, backgrounds and stages of life. Some events are all-ages, others are designed to help women connect with others in a similar season.

Whether it's your first event or your fifteenth, we've got you. Before each event you'll be digitally introduced to your host.

Members on a beachfront walk in Actually Social tees

A large circle of members sitting together in a park

Members on a bush walk together over a wooden bridge

What a month actually looks like

Come to whichever you like. Skip what you don't.

Gals laughing together over dinner at a restaurant

Group dinners

Cocktails on a bar top at an evening social event

After-work drinks & rooftop catch-ups

Woman painting pottery at a creative workshop

Creative nights, pottery & candle making

Pilates, run club, walk & talk

Members watching a drag performance at a night out

Drag bingo & musical trivia

Game nights, markets & gals trips

How it works

Three steps, no awkward intros

Lock in your membership

One monthly membership gives you access to every members-only event and meet-up in your city.

Pick what you fancy

The calendar drops monthly. Book the plans that suit your week — there's no minimum attendance.

Meet your host, then everyone else

You'll be introduced to your host by email on the day. Turn up exactly as you are.

Your membership includes

Unlimited access to the social calendar

Dinners, drag bingo, book club, rooftop drinks, pop-ups and gals trips. Curated monthly, always changing.

Introduced before every event

You're digitally introduced to your host on the day, so you're never walking into a room cold.

Designed to come solo

Most members join on their own. That's exactly how it's built — the host handles the introductions.

Free events + pay only for what you choose

Walks, runs and book club are free. At dinners and drinks you just pay for what you eat or drink.

Founding member pricing

Lock in the founding rate for as long as you stay a member, before public pricing kicks in.

Cancel anytime

We're not a gym bestie. No lock-in, no notice, no reactivation fees. Come back whenever.

A large group of members sitting together on the grass

Coming solo

You won't be the only one

Most of our gals arrive solo, so come exactly as you are — we'll take care of the introductions. Every event is hosted, and there's already someone there to welcome you and bring you into the group.

How the club works

The details

NZ$16 a month

GST inclusive. Cancel anytime. No contracts — just new experiences, new routines and new friendships waiting for you. Some events have an additional cost paid directly to the venue.

Become a founding member

By joining you agree to our membership terms.