Actually Social members gathered together outdoors

How it works

We organise it. You just say yes.

A membership, not a one-off event. Every month there's a fresh calendar of hosted plans in your city, built for women turning up on their own.

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Join your city

Pick Auckland, Wellington or Christchurch and start a rolling monthly membership. No lock-in, no joining fee, cancel whenever.

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Get the calendar

You'll get access to your city's event calendar straight away — dinners, creative nights, movement, trivia, big nights and low-key catch-ups.

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Book what suits you

RSVP to as many or as few events as you like. Numbers are capped so every room stays the right size for actual conversation.

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Turn up (solo is normal)

A host greets you, seats you and makes introductions. Most members arrive on their own — that's the whole point.

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House rules

A few club manners

  • RSVP only if you plan to come. Cancel at least 48 hours out if plans change.
  • Repeated no-shows may attract a no-show fee so seats don't go to waste.
  • Be kind, be inclusive, keep what's shared in the room in the room.
  • This is a women's social club — not a networking pitch or a sales floor.
Members around a long table at an Actually Social dinner
Members on a night out with the club

Ready when you are

Find your city